You have to see people through your heart and love them through your mind.
In other words, filter what we see with our eyes through love and then filter our actions to what we see through wisdom!
Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others. Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus: ( Philippians 2:4-5)
We have to THINK...
with the mind of Christ!!!